Relationship Issues: How to STOP arguing

In every relationship, there's no guarantee that you won't argue. It's a helping process for both you and your partner. You may not know it's part of a growing process for both of you.

Sometimes, it's healthy for both you to argue but don't fight just because of petty thing. If you continue to fight even the smallest thing, you might end breaking up.

Here are some tips:


1. Space from one another

A little space between the two of you can make help you two sort out your feelings. A short break like for a few hours or even just a few days will make you think and miss each other. A little space is to able for both of you to breathe especially when the two of you are always together.

2. Lower your PRIDE and Apologize

None of you don't want to talk to each other because you think the other is responsible. Pride is something that shouldn't tolerate. If you know that you are responsible, then say sorry don't say it sarcastically or you might get into another argument. You won't be able to make-up after that.

3. Talk

Communication is key to stop arguing. Sit down and talk to each other. Ask each other what started the fight? Every thing can be solved by talking in a calm manner. Don't let your emotions get the best of you like don't blame the other party or point out his flaws because remember you chose this person to love despite having those flaws.

4. Change

Of course after the argument, you have realized some mistakes you made or you need to change some attitudes that are just unbearable. You don't have to change immediately, take baby steps into becoming a better person for your partner.

There are people who always argue are the ones who has the best relationship. Because they learn to grow mature together. But don't always argue because one day one of you may grow tired and end the relationship. Remember love each other and always let God be the center of your relationship. He will always guide you to the right path and don't forget it. :)

Sorry it took so long again to post :) until next time

Coca-Cola a Friendly Twist

It's start of a new school. You don't know anyone and you don't know how to talk or to start a conversation with others. but what if you can get a new friend by just a bottle of coke? Coca-Cola has made another brilliant idea not just to increase sales, but also to bring happiness to others especially to students like you.

This was posted yesterday on YouTube: (I don't own this video. all copyrights are owned by Coca-Cola)

It was published on May 19,2014. After just 10 days, it already generated 802,833 views on YouTube alone. There are some negative reviews about it because who would talk to strangers just to open a bottle of coke right?

This was introduced in Colombia designed by Leo Burnett. He thought of a way to have great interaction between fresh students on campus. Coca-Cola introduces "The Friendly Twist", a newly-designed bottle just like the last year's Coca-Cola's Share Happiness Can Campaign. Only this time, You don't really share the bottle. 

The Concept of this campaign is "Open a Coke, Open a new friendship".

It's actually the cap not the bottle that has the twist. You can't open the cap bottle by just twisting it by your self. You need another cap bottle to both of your bottles. In that way, not only you can drink a coke but you gain a new friend to drink it with.

It is truly a Happiness in a bottle.

Until the next post, hope you like this.

One Direction Fan Girl killed by her father

We saw this news from The Philippine Trend, how a teenage girl was killed by her own father. The girl was Gracelyn "grace", a supposedly 3rd college student was found dead on her bathroom floor around lunch time on May 27,2014.

Grace's brother was the one who found her lying in her pool of blood. He quickly ran outside of their house to call their cousins for help. 

The Parañaque police arrived at around 1:30pm. The suspect was her father who was found by the police  in a state of shock and sitting at corner of the room, holding a knife with a bloodied shirt. 

The suspect immediately surrendered, bawling while saying "I didn't mean to kill her. I didn't know what I was doing."

The suspect is charged with murder and is in the custody of the Parañaque police.

The victim's mother expound why her daughter was killed. It all started when the suspect found out that her daughter spent her tuition fee on a One Direction VIP concert ticket. She also stated "My husband worked really hard for that money. She was supposedly on her 3rd year of college. We put a lot of effort so she can graduate on time."

Harry Styles from One direction express on twitter his condolence to the victim's family:

No one has the right to kill someone no matter what the reason is. You don't have the authority to take away any life. Only God can have the power to do it.

How much are you willing to pay just to talk to your loved ones?

How many years has been since you went abroad to work?

When was the last time you talk to your loved ones?

How much are you willing to spend just to talk to them?

For every $0.60 per minute call, you need to timed your call just right. The only thing you can say is "Hello" or "I miss you" or "How are you?". How about the other things you wanted to say? You need to spend most of your salary just to talk to them.

I recently watched this video:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=887874811229849

(I don't own this video. All copyright are owned by the Coca-Cola co.)

Coca has done it again. A new way to help every South Asia Laborers to talk to their respective families. I find it very interesting. This was shared to me by my office mate regarding a new tactic Coca-Cola has made. For every plastic bottle cap of coke, you get to talk for 3 minutes to any of your loved ones. Instead of currency, they used the plastic bottle cap.

The video itself made the audience hook immediately. It produces 18,993 shares, 9,918 likes, 903 comments and it's a viral video if I may say so myself; but unfortunately this is only available in UAE.

If Filipinos were to discover this phone booth, then the Coca-Cola Company would have boost up their sales even more. For Coca-Cola has been given us 128 years of  happiness. They never failed to amazed us with their unique commercials and campaigns. I would definitely be part of this happiness, how about you? Would you like to have this on your country?

(I don't own the pictures also. All copyright are owned by the Coca-Cola co.)

How to mend a broken heart

What is a broken heart?

According to Wikipedia, It is a common metaphor for the intense emotional pain or suffering one feels after losing a loved one, whether through death, divorce, breakup, physical separation, betrayal, or romantic rejection. 

I remember when I had my first break-up. I felt betrayed, miserable and angry. I don't have any one to turn to. I can't tell my parents because I was not allowed to have a relationship. My friends can't give me any advice because I was the first one to be in a relationship. But I figured it out myself.

Here are my own version to mend a broken heart:

1. Cry

Let it all out. You don't need to keep it. If you want to cry then cry. nobody is stopping you. It's a stress reliever, all the bad vibes from your body will be gone. After you cry, you should feel relaxed and it feels like a thorn has been removed from your heart.

2. Go on a date with yourself

Admit it, you're not used to go out without him/her. Activities like: watching movies, travel, going to the beach, or whatever other activities. List down the things you did with your partner and schedule yourself to do those things. You will feel independent and will able to face anything.

3. Pray
   
Don't forget about God. He knows what happen to you; he's just waiting for you to talk to him. You can go to church or in the blessed sacrament room. Thank him about the blessings he gave you, the things he is about to give you. Read the bible also while you're there and you'll be enlighten about there's more to life than love.

4. Create a list
    
List down the things you hate and love about him/her and place it in a box. After 10 days, open the box and read it. You won't notice yourself smiling or laughing about this person and eventually realize that he's not right for you. 

5. Smile / Laugh

Laughter is the best medicine. Don't wear a fake smile, it's not worth it. Laugh when something is really funny. Like when you watch an episode of show time, Vice Ganda's tactics are so funny.  

6. Spend time with your loved ones
         
Plan a trip with your family or have movie dates with your friends. For me, my parents didn't know I had a boy friend. When they found out, they were angry at first but eventually they were the ones helped me to move on. Always remember this saying: "partners may come and go but family and friends are forever."


If you remember the film "One More Chance" with John Lloyd and Bea Alonzo, also remember the saying: "Sometimes it's better for two people to break up, so they can grow up." It just means that a little time off together or even a long one can change a person. It's either you learn from your mistake or not at all. You are still be the one to decide that.

Hope this post can be of help until next time :>